Guest Blogger: Jessica Birchmier
To share the joys of hosting an exchange student, I have asked host parents to weigh in on their hosting experiences with their 2023-24 exchange students. Today's featured students are presented by their host Mom, Jessica of Woodstock, GA.
Double-hosting Adventure!
What do you do in the middle of the night when Monday threatens to become Tuesday before Monday's To-Do list is done?
- Your 'own' laundry?
- Ensure your “boys” are packed for a final school trip?
Of course, it's late and, as a mom, your personal needs move to the bottom of the list. Laundry? It can wait. Surely I can find something in my closet to wear.
The late hour coupled with the fact a recent medical procedure limits what I can lift, what a joy to hear:
"Hey, Mom, can I carry that downstairs for you?" ...and a little later:
"Mom, I’m going to ‘switch’ the laundry for you."
Living with 3 teenage boys (and a husband), Lord knows their laundry doesn't touch the washing machine for days… and yes, THEY ALL KNOW HOW TO DO THEIR OWN LAUNDRY!
I’m on my final countdown with my bonus sons (exchange students); Eric from Spain and Nicky who's half-Thai/half-Dutch. I never know how to describe him other than "ours".
Planning the boys' departure, attending my son's Honor Roll ceremony, and graduation for my Spanish son, all while WONDERING why they plan all these ceremonies simultaneously. Would I change the schedule of events if I could? ABSOLUTELY!
Do I look to improve exchange students' situations, OF COURSE. Would I change my life since taking in a kid because I liked his name in 2022? NEVER! I have been blessed, to be a host mom and also a local rep for exchange students in the area, making a difference in a world that badly needs change.
It's not about me. It’s about my boys, always. I may have birthed one but, I've got 3 more who call me American Mama.
You can make a difference, too. Reach out for details on how to be a host family.
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